Sexyat40

While visiting with a friend, we had a interesting conversation about men. She’s a single, 38 year old, white collar professional & mom of three. She has a nice home, car but struggling financially. There is really no reason for her to settle when it comes to men  , yet over and over again she does.

She knows full well in her head that there is no prince charming, but still in her heart keeps feeling one still will ride up and carry her away. She then becomes disillusioned when the man can’t live up to her unrealistic expectations.

If someone is claiming to be perfect and whisk you away from your troubles, be leery. There are no knights or princes. The ones that do show up are typically wolves in sheep’s clothing.

Those are the men to be most careful of. They are the ones that sit and wait and prey on the women that are lonely, desperate or weak. Women are leaving the door wide open for them to swoop in and get them right where they can have the most control over them.

 To reverse it a bit, a woman would be leery to sign onto a relationship with a man with no money, job or prospects. And those women that do sign on are expecting to repair the man, thinking that they can recreate him into their dream. The same applies to men. Those that are willing to sign on have their own motives, and rarely are they being generous or kind. They see a damaged object that they can “fix” to a certain point, but never enough to be truly free. The woman will always be dependent on him, and his investment of time and money.
Just because you read it as a child, there is no fairytale prince who will  ride up and “save” us. You have to write your own fairytale or story that is complete without a prince.  Only then will will you be able to find the right person to share your life with.

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